One step at a time

 One of the biggest things for me to remember on a daily basis is to break down my actions in to small obtainable goals. It is easy to get overwhelmed when I think about the 75lbs I still have to lose to hit my goal weight, so I have decided to take it 10lbs at a time. I am hoping to lose 10 lbs by September 6th. It is daunting to think about running a 5k in October, but I know I can walk that far, so my goal for the next month is to try to run 2 min out of every 5 min.

My goal for running is still contingent on what my doctor says about my knees. I walked a little over a mile last night. I didn't attempt to even jog because of the knee pain I just had walking. I walked at a leisurely pace because I know that as long as I am moving forward I am working toward my goals. I'm feeling pretty good today, so I am planning on running a bit tonight.

To be real with myself and anyone who might read this, I have a graphic I'm going to start putting at the bottom of my blog posts so you can see how I'm doing!

Wishing you love and sunshine,
Sarah

Learning to listen to my body

After years of athletic training and almost a dozen surgeries, I have finally learned to listen to my body. Saturday's first attempt at running was painful. I know the difference between soreness, caused by micro-tears in the muscle fibers that as they repair helps make the muscle stronger, and pain. My knees have been hurting a lot following my run so I decided to back off. I rested for two days taking time to ice my knees and taking Advil. Last night I walked 2 miles and lightly jogged a few staggered minutes. My knees are not as painful and stiff today, so I think I am on the right track. I made an appointment with my surgeon to have her take a look at my "good" knee. I call it my good knee because while it is bad, I haven't had surgery on it yet. I want to make sure I am not doing irreparable damage and what she says will be the difference between trying to run my first 5k in October versus walking the 5k.

My quest to get healthy has been full of ups and downs. I have lost 50 lbs in the last year and a half which is awesome, but I still find myself getting discouraged by set backs like knee pain. Maybe I need to listen harder to what my body is saying. Maybe it isn't really saying, "I am in pain. Slow down." Maybe my body is really saying, "I just can't keep taking the same abuse anymore!" I think during the course of this blog that I have decided walking the 5k isn't such a bad thing. I'm going to have to change the way I look at exercise and realize the philosophies of "No pain, No gain" and "Go hard or go home" just aren't working for me. I saw a sign up the road from where I live advertising a yoga class. Maybe it is time I take a different path to get to where I want to be.

Wishing you love and sunshine,
Sarah

I am not my parents, my son is not me

As I am still nursing my sore knees from this past weekends running attempt I had to stop and really think about a few things.

My son has an incredible passion for running. He is 11 years old and though he is really active he wasn’t interested in many sports. He tried baseball, but we quickly learned that his baseball career wasn’t going to advance beyond little league. When the elementary school started a running club a couple years ago, he was so excited. It is something that he loves to do and is really good at. He is 11 years old and requesting to run 5k races on a monthly basis now. I want him to excel and be excited, but I am hesitant because of my own athletic history.

From my first day of swim lessons when I was seven years old, my parents knew that I was going to be a swimmer. I excelled in my lessons and joined the year-round swim team at the YMCA when I was eight years old. By the time I was 14, I was swimming on two different teams year-round and a third in the summers. I loved swimming. I couldn’t get enough. To top it all off, I was really good. My parents couldn’t keep me from working out even on vacations. By the time I was in high school I was swimming 4-6 hours a day. It started taking a toll on my body, but I didn’t care because I had this drive to do the one thing that I was good at. One of my coaches had instilled in me the mentality of swim through the pain. By the time I was 16 I was in physical therapy for my shoulder. When I was 17 I had my first knee surgery. I had been swimming so much that I actually wore out the cartilage in my joint. I went to college swimming on the JV team, a year-round club team, and playing water polo. A year later, when I was 19, I had two more knee surgeries and a shoulder surgery. My swimming career was over. I lost who I was. I identified myself growing up as a swimmer and when I couldn’t swim anymore I didn’t know who I was or where I fit in the world. I am 33 now and my surgery total is up to 8 surgeries on one knee and 2 surgeries on one of my shoulders. I need to have a knee replacement now on my right knee and will be calling my doctor this week to take a look at my left knee.

I do not blame my parents, but I wish they had not let me do that to myself. I wish they had made me take more breaks. I wish that they ignored my pleas to keep swimming even though I was injured. I am hoping to learn from what happened to me and teach my son to enjoy running, listen to his body, and above all, learn that he is so much more than a runner. I want my son to say (in this situation at least) that he is nothing like his mom.

Wishing you love and sunshine,
Sarah

Another beginning...Desk to 5k

Yesterday I ran and yes, I did it on purpose. You see, I signed up for the Desk to 5k program at work. In 10 weeks I will be participating in my first 5k. I am not a runner and have never been a runner but with the help of my co-workers and a lot of work, I am determined to run the entire 5k. I'm sure most people are thinking that a 5k is no big deal, including my family members that are all runners, but for me it is a daunting task.

I am 70 lbs over weight and have horrible knees due to my younger athletic days. Yesterday morning we did 2.7 miles in 42 minutes by walking 4 minutes and running 1 minute. Each minute we spent running was the longest 60 seconds of my life. I spent time last night icing my knees and have taken the maximum amount of Advil for a 24 hour time period. I was so excited to sign up for this program, excited to start running... and now... I'm worried that my body might not be able to actually do this. I can handle sore muscles...I welcome sore muscles because I know that when my muscles are sore that I worked hard for them to be so. What I am unsure of is whether or not I am doing permanent damage to my knees.

I know this post doesn't make a lot of sense. I promise I will start at the beginning.

Love and sunshine,
Sarah

On how to close a blog post

 

I have seen many people ending their blogs different ways. Some people end a blog with a standard closing like "good bye" or "have a nice day". Other people end their blogs with a quote that was relevant to their topic that day. Another group of bloggers end by simply signing their name. And so I began pondering how I could end my blog in a memorable way.

I started by thinking about memorable television news anchor sign offs. Katie Couric realized the importance of a good sign off line by trying a different on each night and even askeing for suggestions online. Couric's replacement on the CBS Nightly News, Scott Pelley, had no trouble with his line and closes the broadcast with "From all of us, all around the world, good night." CBS Sunday Morning's Charles Osgood has a different approach and ends each Sunday with  "...until then, I'll see you on the radio." Peter Jennings used to end his broadcast by saying "For everyone at ABC news, I'm Peter Jennings. Good night." Edward R. Murrow ended with "Good night and good luck." Perhaps one of the most famous sign offs in broadcast history was Walter Cronkite who confidently stated "...and that is the way it is."

Many other types of closings can be found in other genres on television. Conan O'Brien used to end his show with a song which normally took place after the broadcast ended, but did on occasion make it on live TV. "Criminal Minds" on CBS ends each show with a quote as a take away for the lesson they hoped you would learn. We all remember Porky Pigs famous closing of "That's all folks."

Screenplay writers all know that the last line of a film and make or break the movie. The Rocky Horror Picture Show ended with the line, "And crawling on the planet's face, some insects called the human race. Lost in time, and lost in space and meaning." We can feel the love of family when Dorothy says, "And oh, Auntie Em, there's no place like home." at the end of The Wizard of Oz. And who can forget when at the end of Casablanca Humphrey Bogart said, "Louis, I think this is the beginning of a beautiful friendship."

What are other closing lines that you remember? I encourage you to think about what you closing line would be. What is that one sentence that you will etch you in to your reader's memory. I close this with what I think will be my sign off. It stems from the way I used to sign letters to my older sister when she went to college.


Wishing you love and sunshine,
Sarah

And so I begin...again

I started blogging as a New Year's resolution in 2012 and like most resolutions, it lasted only a few months. So here I am, making another attempt at sorting through the maze of thoughts in my jumbled mind. Here is what I hope to accomplish with this blog:

-that this blogging adventure will rekindle my writing passion.
-to engage others in meaningful conversation rather than a two line status update.
-to share my experiences in hopes that maybe one person will be affected

"When asked, 'How do you write?'
I invariably answer, 'one word at a time.'”

- Stephen King

“The secret of getting ahead is getting started.”

- Agatha Christie